Sometimes in life, in trying so hard to control things and prove to the last that you are inevitably right, things might just spiral out of control and when that happens, regret crawls in along side hurt. We can not have everything we want when we want them, neither can we expect people to think and act the way we want them to; but that does not mean that we will not get want we need. Learning when to loose the grip a little and when to tighten it is very essential. Life as we know it is full of ups and downs and what you make of it matters a lot. One thing we must make out time for is reflection. What was the reasons for my actions today? Were they justifiable? Am i wrong, right or should i let it slide and be more mature? In reflecting, we tend to see things more clearly and perhaps with an open mind. It is important to stay true to yourself at all times, always try and never give up. This is the realistic truth!